This post is Day 27 of the 2012 edition of the 31 Days to Reset Your Life Challenge. Learn more and sign up here.
Yesterday, you made a new friend. Now that you’re feeling extra social, today, I challenge you to get back in tune with your romantic side. Today, you will take steps to revive your love life.
Estimated Time to Complete: Varies
Today’s challenge has two options: one for those who already have a partner and one for those who are single and looking for a partner.
Option 1:
If you already have a partner or spouse, do something out of the ordinary. Do something you used to do when you first met or do something you’ve never done before. Do something romantic for no reason except that it’s Saturday.
If you’re looking for ideas, I always find good ones on Lovingyou.com pertaining to love, romance, passion and sex. They also have a really fantastic list of date night ideas whether you want to stay in or go out. Clearly, there are a million ideas out there to bring more spice into your relationship. Try one!
Option 2:
If you want to find a romantic partner, you can approach someone you already like or find attractive and ask for their phone number or ask them out on a date. Or, instead of staying in the house watching TV, make plans to go out tonight to a popular spot for singles in your area – perhaps a lounge or nightclub. You might also get some ideas from this post: Five Often-Overlooked Places to Meet Single Men.
Or, you can sign up for an online dating service. If you’ve never tried online dating before, I’ve written A Brief Guide to Getting Started with Online Dating. After experimenting quite a bit with different online dating sites over the past year, I have a few favorites that I outline in the post along with some valuable tips to maximize your online dating experience.
Take Action and Reflect: When you’re done, tell us about what you did to spice up your love life in the comments! Also let us know if any immediate results have occurred, either with an outcome or simply a change in your frame of mind. If you blogged about today’s assignment, please post the link in the comments so we can read it!
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Day 27 Reset: http://hittheresetbutton2012.wordpress.com/2012/04/27/day-27-reset/
This was surprisingly easy because I am in my 1st long term relationship and I’ve been successful at keeping the spark alive. Ironically it’s the most successful area of my life. Love…it’s what I am good at.
the website had great suggestions. I’ll be putting those to use but here’s a few from my own toolbox of love.
- handmade love notes/greeting cards (they don’t have to be long; short and sweet does it)
- E-cards are sweet gestures also
- I gave my girlfriend a candlelit bedroom picnic apart of her week long bday celebration
-flowers (for no reason) my GF surprised me at work with a single blue rose and my fav drink from starbucks
-just because trinkets (small teddy bears, small scented candles)
Best of Love Ladies!
Read my latest blog post…Being Patient With Myself
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