When I decided to go natural in 2010, it was after many years of thinking about it but being too chicken to actually DO it. After I did my first big chop, I felt free from all the emotional baggage … Continue reading
“As long as we continue to live as if we are what we do, what we have, and what other people think about us, we will remain filled with judgments, opinions, evaluations, and condemnations. We will remain addicted to the … Continue reading
This year, I am being more intentional about reflecting on my life and work. How else will I know if I’m making progress on the goals, dreams and opportunities I have for myself? I loved doing my annual review of 2011 (here are the questions I used … Continue reading
“Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.” - Henri Nouwen My little cousin Elijah is three years old and, like any toddler, is very clear about what does and does … Continue reading
This year, I am being more intentional about reflecting on my life and work. How else will I know if I’m making progress on the goals, dreams and opportunities I have for myself? I loved doing my annual review of 2011 (here are the questions I used … Continue reading
As black women – we often define ourselves by our suffering. We often cling to the stories of racism or abuse or poverty that have permeated our lives and those of our ancestors. Sometimes, we even try to “outsuffer” one another. My pain is greater than your pain! Who … Continue reading
This is my definition of faith: Faith is taking action in spite of fear, knowing that all of my needs will be taken care of by the universe. What is your definition of faith? What do you tell yourself when you worry?
This is the room I’m renting in Charlottesville, Virginia. I’ve been here over a week now. I found it as a sublet on Airbnb (referral link) for the month. This is the second time I’ve used Airbnb to find a really cool place to stay during my little nomadic adventure (without having to sign … Continue reading
. . . and light a candle . . . Nah, this post has nothing to do with the Teddy Pendergrass song of the same name. Although, it is one of my favorites. Turn ‘em off! I’ve been in Charlottesville, … Continue reading
As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live. – Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe About this time last year, I went to a lecture given by Sophy Burnham at the Virginia Festival of the Book in Charlottesville. … Continue reading
I’ve been traveling a lot this month for my business. So far in February, I’ve been in Modesto, Miami and Biloxi. When you hear me say I’m going anywhere in the United States, it is usually for a speaking engagement. … Continue reading