Rosetta Thurman

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June 1, 2021

3 Limiting Money Beliefs That Sabotage Your Coaching Business

Throughout my years of helping hundreds of Black women to build profitable coaching businesses, I’ve found that the biggest hurdle to our success is not necessarily doing the day-to-day work – such as the marketing or the sales, etc.

It’s actually our mindset.

More specifically, it’s our limiting beliefs about money and what’s possible for us.

Limiting money beliefs are beliefs that keep us from being wealthy, successful and happy.

If you want to overcome those beliefs and grow your coaching business faster, here are 3 limiting money beliefs to let go of.

1. “Successful coaches must have something I don’t have.”

The truth is, just because someone is further along than you financially in their business, doesn’t mean they’re better than you. And you certainly shouldn’t be worshipping them as if they are perfect and you aren’t worthy to breathe their air. 6-figure, multiple 6-figure and millionaire coaches are human, just like you. God didn’t give them anything He didn’t give you. So if they can do it, then you can do it, too!

2. “The white woman’s ice is colder.“

We don’t have to emulate everything our white peers are doing in the coaching industry in order to be successful. We can do it OUR way – sell what we want, charge what we want and make money how we want. Just because the “it coach” of the moment is blonde and thin with an expensive website and 100,000 followers on Instagram – doesn’t mean that she has THE “secret” to getting clients and making money. As Black women entrepreneurs, we have to be careful not to internalize racism and fall into the “I’m not good enough” trap just because we weren’t born with white privilege.

3. “Rich people are bad and money is evil.“

How can you desire to be rich and hate rich coaches at the same time? This is the definition of cognitive dissonance at it’s finest. If you want to make a lot of money in YOUR coaching business, then you have to stop throwing shade at the women who make a lot of money in THEIR coaching business. Instead of criticizing them, CELEBRATE THEM. Especially your fellow Black women. Because money is not evil; it’s just that some people do evil things with money. Good people have always done good things with it!

If you’re ready to grow your coaching business to the 6-figure mark and beyond, click here to learn more about my 6-Figure Queen Mastermind.

June 1, 2021

The Destructive Cycle of Playing Small

Rosetta Thurman Personal Development

One day you will wake up and there won’t be any more time to do the things you’ve always wanted. Do it now.
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There are so many reasons why, as Black women, we tend to play small in our lives and businesses.

And by “playing small,” I mean all those times that we dim our light, downplay our gifts and shrink to make other people feel comfortable.

We are taught to “be humble.”

We are taught not to be “too loud.”

We are taught, essentially, not to be too much, not to get too big, not to become too successful.

Or else…what?

We won’t be liked?

We won’t receive love?

We won’t be accepted?

I remember an ex-boyfriend of mine telling me that he wished I was more of a “plain Jane” and not always “doing so much” all the time.

This was over a decade ago, when I was literally just getting started in my career. But even then, he couldn’t handle my light.

It was in that moment I chose not to believe that having a man was more important than walking in my purpose and following my dreams.

I vowed that I would always choose ME over everything.

You’re probably here in my tribe because deep down, you know that playing small just so you will be liked, loved and accepted is a losing game.

Because if people can’t deal with who you really are, then they shouldn’t be in your life anyway!

At the end of the day, you will only feel resentment towards the people in your life who you perceive are trying to hold you back.

Because you know you’re capable of so much more.

Yet you keep letting yourself down.

You keep sabotaging your success.

You keep saying NO to your desires.

You keep delaying your happiness.

You keep stopping yourself from taking the leap.

And that’s the real betrayal.

“They” can talk about you behind your back.

“She” can stop being friends with you.

“He” could leave you.

But what happens when YOU leave you?

You literally have nothing left.

Your real self goes to sleep and your soul suffers.

So how do you stop this destructive cycle of playing small?

First, you must release the belief that it’s even possible for you to be “too” anything.

You have been given the gifts, talents, skills, ideas and desires that are inside of you for a reason!

No one outside of you could ever comprehend your FULL potential.

No one but you and God know what you are TRULY capable of.

That’s why you can’t be worried about what other people think!

It’s up to you to step into the truth that you were meant to be, do and have MORE than you are currently experiencing now.

It’s time to transform your mindset and get out of your own way so that you can fulfill your purpose and finally become the woman you were meant to be.

It’s time to stop settling for a “normal” life and give yourself permission to have it ALL.

No longer do you have to be held back by the limiting beliefs that you’ve been taught.

You can DECIDE – right here and right now – to have a different life.

And when you do that – when you act from courage instead of fear?

That’s when you will inspire so many others to do the same.

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